Dealing with a Toxic Friend in JHS
It’s all started when we
were classmates at the 1st grade of JHS. Just call her B. She’s really good at
playing drama, pretend to be friendly to me a whole year. In my back,
apparently she fooled me. I’ve been backstabbed by her. Yikes! And someone told
me that she actually hate me since we were in the same place of course (the
last year of elementary school). Woah, i don’t really know specifically why she
hated me. And you know, her hatred persisted at the 1st grade of JHS. She
backstabbed me. She told everyone (not at all but some close classmates) about
my bad things (of course it’s literally false!). It affects my study. My
passion in study has been dropped. I don’t really remember if she apologize to
me or nah. Moreover, I don’t hope that she will do that too. So, I commited to
cut out the friendship, more like watch over a distance.
Fyi, at the 2nd grade of JHS, students are
randomly picked. So, I have some new friends. I hope that I won’t be classmate
with B again. But, bad luck to know that we’re still classmates. Short story, I
used to be friend with this girl. Just call her Q, one of my new friends at the
2nd grade, she’s also my chairmate. We’re also often made tweets and replied to
each other. I’m so happy with her. And I think, I finally found my real friend,
unless B doesn’t come and destroyed it all. I don’t really remember what
happened at the time, but our chairmates were reorganized. Q isn’t my chairmate
anymore. You know what? Q is B’s chairmate! They’re friends, I mean they’re
just getting close. Isn’t it hurt to know that your friend found another
friend?
As I thought, Q has changed. We aren’t close
like we used to. We barely talk. I’m so sad. I don't know why, but I have a bad
thought that B is the reason why Q has changed this fast. Maybe Q has
brainwashed or what. I can’t clearly think about it, maybe it’s because I'm too
sho0k. And at the 3rd grade(last year of JHS) we still talk, but it's still
infrequent conversations. At the last semester of the 3rd grade, B officially
apologize for all her mistakes to me. She admit that she has many faults to me.
Although it has been 8 years, but I still remember how painful it is and make
it as a life lesson. Goodbye, toxic friends!
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